Much is said about tact. About being careful on what to say so we do not end up hurting others. But there is also wisdom in knowing when to speak and when not to.
We tend to forget that we do not have to respond to every harsh word uttered upon us. That we do not have to say things that may be true, but could tarnish other people’s reputation. To keep complaining and whining at bay so we do not spread negativity to others. And to stop ourselves from dispensing well-meaning advice to someone grieving, but just needs to have someone to sit in silence with.
“When there are many words, wrongdoing is unavoidable, But one who restrains his lips is wise.” Proverbs 10:19
Even as parents, we have to master the perfect timing of when to speak to our children so that they can absorb the guidance we want to provide. To calm ourselves when their words and actions start hurting
our pride. When we restrain ourselves, we get to douse the flames of anger and relationships will remain intact.
“Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.” Ephesians 6:4
The Bible acknowledges that the tongue is indeed hard to tame. But it is not impossible to do when we possess the humility and meekness our Savior has modeled for us to follow. We can always ask for His grace to help us stay humble when our pride is hurt. To not engage in gossip, and to discern when best to open our mouths. And when we do, let us also pray for the grace to only say words that are encouraging, and bless others
“Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.” Ephesians 4:29
Thank you for reading our devotional today. Kindly read James 3:1-12 and Psalm 19:14 for a deeper dive into the topic.
Reflection Question: Are you having a hard time restraining yourselves from talking back to someone who has hurt you? or from engaging in gossip? Do you know when to keep mum and when to speak words that bless others? What bible verses will you meditate on to encourage you to bless others with your words or silence?
Conversation with the Lord: Heavenly Father, please give me the strength to stay humble like you when my flesh wants to respond harshly to a bad or hurtful word hurled upon me. Give me the patience
and humility my Lord to restrain myself. And give me the wisdom to discern when to open my mouth, and when to speak words of encouragement to others. Amen.